It's Anatomical & Psychological: Before I begin, I know that I am going to tick off a lot of women and gays. Believe me this is not my intention. I am just trying to address an old issue, and present it from a different view point. the issue is: When men sleep around, they're considered "Men." However, when women sleep around, they're considered "Sluts." Why?

My theory is this: Men, by their anatomical make up, are the ones- sexually, that are dong the giving and women, as well as gays, usually, are the ones that are on the receiving end. The men are the ones that are, usually, doing the penetrating. Moreover, women and gays are the ones in receipt of that which is ejaculated by the men. The men emits/ejects, and, the women and gays, accepts/receives. It's just that simple. Because of the way that men are built, they are doing the emitting, and, not the receiving. This, of course, pertains to heterosexual men.The men are the givers, and the women are the receivers.

Even during oral-sex, the men are the ones emitting and the women and gays are the ones, usually, receiving the men's, emitted, by-product, or waste. The same, scenario, holds true with regards to anal-sex. The men are, generally, doing the penetrating and emitting; whereas, the women and gays, in most cases, are the ones being penetrated, and the ones that are in receipt of the men's sperm. In essence: the men are the dominate factor, and women and gays, are the passive factor, despite the sexual act.

I am not, will not, and would never pass judgment on anyone. I, nor anyone else, should. However, to put it bluntly: women and gays are viewed, by most men, as nothing, but, receptacles for men's waste.This is why lesbians are viewed differently, and not as harshly by men and society. They don't fit into that, general, mold due too their anatomical make up. Unless it's with the use of a sexual toy, or the use of their fingers, lesbians don't get penetrated by men, and, therefore, are not receptacles for their emitted by-product, or waste. Men see lesbians as just girls having, harmless, fun with each other. They are not perceived as being dirty or disgusting: after all, what can they really do with each other? Furthermore, lesbians don't pose a threat to men's "ego," as women and gays do.

Even though it's 2006, men still have a problem with accepting women as their equal counterparts. Men are tolerating the situation, because, they have no other choice, or very few options. This is why in the bedroom, men must feel that they're superior, dominate and in total control. And, fortunately for them, physiology is on their side. Women may control the board room, but not the bedroom. Men truly, and sincerely, believe that they are physically, psychologically, emotionally and intellectually superior to women. And they view gays in the same light as they view women. It's unfair, but life often is. It's more of an anatomical and psychology thing. For logic has very little, or nothing. to do with it.

by Mr. Johnnie Newkirk

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